Three Things I’ve Learned About Change

Jasper in the Garden.  Explorer, Adventurer and Puppy.  (Age: 9 weeks)

Jasper in the Garden. Explorer, Adventurer and Puppy. (Age: 9 weeks)

Change Happens

Jasper, my puppy, is already a companion in the workshop. Yesterday he heard me using the jeweller’s saw and didn’t much like the sound. The steel saw blade rasping against silver; a harsh, grating sound. A new experience.

I spoke to him, reassuringly. He settled down. I continued.

It’s all about learning. Learning what’s OK and what’s not.

He’s also growing – a type of change that just happens. He’s learning that he can reach further and leap higher. He’s learning that he can no longer fit underneath the unit that he could last week! He’s learning his place in the pack with our other dogs.

Belief Precedes Change

He also appears to believe that he’s invincible!

There are three small steps down into our garden. After only a moment’s hesitation, Jasper leapt from the top step – an excited, confident leap that would take him to another world.

He tumbled, rolled, picked himself up and had a shake. Sorted.

“Right, now what’s here for me to explore…?”

Next time, the steps were easier. He’d believed he could do it, tried it out, tumbled a little – but learned a lot.

We Grow with Change

In my experience, committing to change sometimes needs a leap of faith.

Acting on the decision to become a Goldsmith, to live in France, to do the things I’m doing – all this meant leaving various chunks of the future to chance. I didn’t feel completely ready, but have ended up discovering so much more than I’d ever imagined. I’ve dealt with some situations better than others, don’t we all?! I’ve felt more alive than ever before. I’ve grown.

Life is an adventure. For Jasper and for me!

To browse through my jewellery and compass creations, I invite you to visit my gallery at Rock Water Studio.

22 Responses to Three Things I’ve Learned About Change
  1. DianaBaur
    January 23, 2011 | 11:36 am

    HE is the cutest puppy ever . RT @rockwaterstudio: Three Things I've Learned about Change. http://bit.ly/hZ5gFZ

  2. karen thorne
    January 23, 2011 | 11:38 am

    Want him! RT @DianaBaur: HE is the cutest puppy ever . RT @rockwaterstudio: Three Things I've Learned about Change. http://bit.ly/hZ5gFZ

  3. Katie Zeller
    January 23, 2011 | 11:41 am

    RT @rockwaterstudio: Three Things I've Learned about Change. (with the help of my puppy!) http://bit.ly/hZ5gFZ (today's cuddly Sunday post)

  4. Kiff Backhouse
    January 23, 2011 | 11:47 am

    RT @rockwaterstudio: A confident leap .. change in our lives: http://bit.ly/fshCLL

  5. Katie
    January 23, 2011 | 1:38 pm

    Oh. My. He’s adorable! I remember that puppy stage – when they can’t figure out why they can no longer fit here and then realize that they can now go there….
    Sedi always howls when the hubs uses his router. Always. Just a little howl, but a howl.
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  6. Chez Loulou
    January 23, 2011 | 1:38 pm

    I love this post Gee!
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    • Gee Backhouse
      January 23, 2011 | 5:14 pm

      Thank you! Jasper’s cuteness is irresistible, eh?

  7. Vanessa@Luxuria
    January 23, 2011 | 3:03 pm

    Your post so resonates with me (and I am sure every ex-pat). My husband and I also left a safe and secure life behind in the UK to live in Seville, Spain where we now run 2 businesses. The fear, worry, sleepless nights, trepidation etc were all the making of who we are today.
    Great post and GORGEOUS puppy; I want him!!

    • Gee Backhouse
      January 23, 2011 | 5:11 pm

      Thank you Vanessa! It’s so true about it being the making of us. You just have to try it to find out for yourself though, don’t you?!

  8. Mindful Journey
    January 23, 2011 | 5:20 pm

    Achingly cute pup, great message! RT @rockwaterstudio: Three Things I've Learned About Change http://bit.ly/fshCLL

  9. Jen Gore
    January 23, 2011 | 6:07 pm

    RT @alisonashford – Achingly cute pup, great message! RT @rockwaterstudio: Three Things I've Learned About #Change http://bit.ly/fshCLL :)

  10. Julie Walraven
    January 24, 2011 | 12:38 pm

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  11. JaneCWoods
    January 24, 2011 | 12:52 pm

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  12. Barb Poole
    January 24, 2011 | 2:50 pm

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  13. website webmaster
    January 25, 2011 | 1:32 pm

    RT @rockwaterstudio: Three Things I've Learned About Change http://bit.ly/fshCLL #JimConnolly at @straightalk

  14. straightalk
    January 25, 2011 | 3:31 pm

    Jim Connolly was the one who presented this website this morning through twitter. And if I visit I leave a comment so here I am writing it down for You to keep. Thanks for sharing and hope to meet up online some where! from us @straightalk
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    • Gee Backhouse
      January 25, 2011 | 3:36 pm

      Thank you for the visit! I look forward to meeting up online, too!

  15. Christine Livingston
    January 28, 2011 | 5:23 pm

    Oh, he’s too cute, Gee! And I love the lessons about change he’s bringing to your awareness – and ours.

    Thanks so much for sharing him and you.

  16. Julie Walraven
    January 30, 2011 | 6:02 pm

    RT @rockwaterstudio: Three Things I've Learned About Change http://bit.ly/fshCLL

  17. Pamela Bassett
    February 5, 2011 | 4:17 pm

    Hi Gee,
    What a gorgeous little thing Jasper is.
    There are no better friends than our pets.Mine keep me reasonably sane! Have got back to making some jewellery again as I hadn’t done any for a year. I had a kick ro help me. On one day I had two e-mails from favourite suppliers firms with new websites. I got interested and sent two orders, That same evening my jeweller I supply rang up and asked for pieces. So that was my push to get going again.
    luv Pam

    • Gee Backhouse
      February 6, 2011 | 11:29 pm

      Hi Pam, I’m so excited for you that you’ve been inspired to start creating again – great! Funny the way things work out, isn’t it? Gx

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